STRESSED!

Hey all,

Okay, first of all- I really dislike the days leading up to final exams...while I am sure Martin dislikes it far more than I do, I hate that I can't do anything to ease the stress that he is feeling. All I can do is listen to him studying, getting frustrated, and wanting to throw his books out the window (and making angry growling noises at his books).

Second, we are moving off the island..for good. This is a good stress and a bad stress. A good stress because we are excited to get home!! A bad stress because this has been our lives for over a year now..so, we have to re-adjust to a new place (which is scary and exciting!) We haven't lived anywhere together for longer than a year (actually, we have lived together in Dominica longer than anywhere else). I know some couples actually moved here right after their wedding and started their married lives here (wow..they are brave!) . So the move back home must have been really bitter-sweet for them! I think you always fondly remember the first place you lived after marriage. Well, come to think of it- every change has its "stresses" that come along with it, right? Ultimately, its a good thing.. and this is what I am taking with me. No matter what happens, we are moving on..and though there are parts of island living that I will miss, I feel that its time. It's still a weird feeling though!

I have to say, today more than ever, I decided that I was ready to leave. Here's the story- Martin and I went to 7-11 (a local store) to get some groceries. They just got some really cool stuff in their freezers (and while Jamaican patties and frozen pizzas may not be exciting to my North American friends, my Dominica friends will understand how exciting that really is!!) Well, I brought over the patties and the pizzas and the lady at the cash says: "these aren't priced yet.. can you please give me 2..or maybe 3...minutes?". HA. 2-3 minutes.. in Caribbean time, that means 1 hour.
So yes friends, we waited one hour to find out the prices of the items... we really just had to laugh at the situation. I have to say though, the lady that was inquiring about the prices was the only one to actually take the time to find out. I went another day and they didn't sell them to me- they didn't even bother finding out the price. She has always been very good with customer service, which is sooo appreciated here (because its rare). She also gave us a discount!! To stay sane here, you really have to look past the thorns to see the rose- and that was definitely the rose of this situation.
BUT, needless to say- it was still frustrating, and it was a confirmation that our time here has to come to an end before we lose our minds. OH and not to mention: it was HOT today. It's hot everyday.. but it was HOT today.

Sigh..well, as they say- "every rose has its thorn"!!




Until next time,

Peace, love, happiness, (and roses),

Stef :)

I am back! And in other news, check out my new design!

Hi guys!

Yup, so I officially suck at updating! It's been almost two semesters since I've last posted. Sorry about that..I am sure I have pretty much lost all my followers!

I guess I have caught the writing bug again, as of yesterday. Why, you ask? Well, I like to keep updated on the newspapers at home, so sometimes I check the latest issues online. I happened to notice an article from the Oakville Beaver about the Kerr Street Ministries food bank- and the shelves were virtually bare. There are 14,000 people in my community who live in poverty- and the KSM was not sure that they could feed everyone. The remaining 600,000 residents of Oakville live well above the poverty line (some VERY well above). This article bothered me, especially after living in Dominica and seeing poverty first-hand. I found it very hard to believe that 600,000 people who have far more than they ever imagined in life, could not buy a few cans for the food bank; could not donate some money. If a child in poverty here in Dominica can spend what little change he has to buy me a cupcake as a thank you (yes, this really happened..sweet little Jervon and Jervony!), then there is absolutely no excuse why people in Oakville can't help their neighbours.
Dominica teaches so many lessons. It teaches us about giving; about the importance of basic needs; about the un-importance of material items. People in North America, for the most part, live in excess. Two or more cars, tons of shoes, tons of clothes; so much food that it is wasted. As much as I miss home, this mentality is something I have a hard time dealing with, especially after living on the island. Sure, I am excited to buy some new clothes, and to drive a car again. But never again will I ever complain about not having something that I want- because I have everything that I need, and that's all the matters.
The point?? Well, I wrote a letter to the editor about the issue- urging Oakville residents to take action, relaying the story of the cupcake- Hoping that people will step up and realize that sacrificing your Starbucks coffee so that someone can eat a meal is worth far more than that coffee ever would.

Anyway, I know thats a long post- but I felt that I needed to say it. To be honest, I dreaded having to write a goodbye post about Dominica. But I think this is the perfect time to say: Thank you Dominica. Thank you for the lessons that no amount of books or school ever could have taught me. Thank you for the people I have met- the locals, the friends, the children of Portsmouth who changed my life in ways I can't even describe. Thank you for showing me that nature is precious, family is everything, and love is the best gift we can receive.

My goal is to make these last two weeks on the island the best I can!!

Peace, love, and happiness,

Stef :)


"If you want to change the world, first try to improve and bring about change within yourself. That will help change your family. From there it just gets bigger and bigger. Everything we do has some effect, some impact." Dalai Lama

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